Easing End-of-Life Sorrows

   
Death can be hardest on the people left behind. An Advance Directive or Health Care Proxy can ensure that a person's wishes are respected and ease the stress on family members and friends. Hospice and palliative care can provide dignity and comfort in the final days, even when death comes suddenly.

Many religious leaders, philosophers, and writers have shared their beliefs on death and dying, but a keen observation comes from an unusual source, the late rock guitarist Jimi Hendrix. “Life is pleasant. Death is peaceful. It’s the transition that’s troublesome,” he said.

The end of a person’s life is difficult for family members and friends. For healthcare professionals, meeting the needs of a dying patient and his or her loved ones can be challenging, especially when the death is sudden.

Although the end of life is not pleasant for anyone, there’s a piece of paper that can ease some of the uncertainty and provide answers to tough questions for family members. An advance directive, also known as a living will, is a document that states a person’s healthcare wishes in the event that he or she cannot communicate them.


Patricia Murphy, R.N., Ph.D.
 

“The best gift that parents can give to their children is completing an advance directive,” says Patricia Murphy, R.N., Ph.D., an advanced practice nurse for ethics and bereavement at University Hospital. “It lifts a tremendous burden off of family members, who otherwise may have to make some very difficult decisions. For example, say a mother of six grown children is comatose and has a poor prognosis. Each of the children might think he or she knows what’s best for Mom, but with an advance directive, even though she can’t speak, the document becomes her voice.”

Another document, a healthcare proxy, authorizes a specific person to act as a “healthcare representative” and make medical decisions for a patient if he or she is unable to do so. With this approach, any confusion among family or friends as to who should be making important decisions is eliminated.

An advance directive form can be obtained from many places, including a doctor’s office or a hospital; it’s even a Federal law that hospital patients must be asked if they have a living will, and if not, if they would like more information. Although it’s recommended that a person complete an advance directive, doing so is completely voluntary. (To download an advance directive form in English or Spanish, go to:

http://www.theuniversityhospital.com/advancedirective/)

In New Jersey, it’s easy to complete an advance directive. Simply fill out the form, sign it, and have two other witnesses over age 18 sign it. There’s no need for an attorney or to have the document notarized. After the advance directive is completed and signed, suggests Dr. Murphy, it is helpful for both a person’s doctor and a family member to receive a copy.

The Humaneness of Hospice

Until about 30 years ago, most terminally ill patients spent their waning weeks or months in hospitals. Few people died in the familiar surroundings of their homes. But then the hospice movement began, embracing the concept that these patients should be able to receive excellent palliative care, such as pain management and emotional support, in a home setting. A specially trained hospice team, which includes nurses, social workers, home health aides, and clergy, work to address the patient’s physical, emotional, social, and religious needs.

“Hospice gives people with life-limiting illnesses the opportunity to live until they die,” says Dr. Murphy. “It really makes perfect, rational sense.”

Hospice services provide support to the patient’s family, too. Many programs offer physical and emotional breaks from the daily care of their loved one. Volunteers stay with the patients for a few hours each week, enabling the primary caregivers a chance to have some time for themselves. During the patient’s illness and afterward, in the bereavement period, hospice is a sounding board for family members.

Today, says Dr. Murphy, most hospice programs are home based, although some also have a nursing home option. Recognizing that home care simply isn't an option for some patients, University Hospital offers hospice care through a partnership with Compassionate Care Hospice.

 
Dr. Anne Mosenthal

End-of-Life Care for Trauma Patients

Hospice programs earn high accolades for their compassionate and comprehensive care of terminally ill patients and their families. For patients at the other end of the spectrum - those who die suddenly - there’s not a widespread, equivalent counterpart. That’s only for the time being, however. Dr. Murphy and Anne Mosenthal, MD, director of the Surgical Intensive Care Unit (SICU) at University Hospital and an associate professor of surgery at New Jersey Medical School, are at the forefront of a movement that could dramatically change the way doctors, nurses, and other staff approach dying and critically injured trauma patients and their families.

“Trauma is a disease of the young. One minute, a person can be perfectly healthy, but because of a catastrophic event, twenty minutes later, he has died. There’s no time for loved ones to prepare for the loss the way cancer patients’ families can,” says Dr. Murphy. “Palliative care in a trauma or surgical ICU setting has to be the most aggressive, systematic comfort care we can provide.”

“Many patients die in the trauma unit regardless of the wonderful medical care they receive, and that’s especially difficult for trauma surgeons to accept,” adds Dr. Mosenthal. “Pat helped me realize that there should be a better process for dying trauma patients and their families, both in terms of quality care and compassionate care.”

A palliative care team has been on call 24/7 for trauma patients at University Hospital for three years, but Dr. Murphy and Dr. Mosenthal wanted to enhance the services and staff training and develop a model program that could be used at other urban trauma centers. In 2002, they received a $150,000 grant from the George Soros Foundation’s Project on Death in America, and this year, they were awarded a $375,000 grant from the Robert Wood Johnson Foundation program, Promoting Excellence in End-of-Life Care. Both projects focus on developing a palliative care program in the trauma/surgical ICU setting.

“Three or four years ago, I didn’t really think of palliative care as something we could do better,” says Dr. Mosenthal. “Now, we’re working on a holistic approach that includes not only the physical needs of the patient, such as being suctioned or receiving regular mouth care, but involving the family and improving communication between staff and the family. Increasingly, doctors have less time to talk to the patients and family; more time is devoted to procedures. Palliative care brings the focus back on the patient.”

The University Hospital program developed through the Robert Wood Johnson grant establishes a model to be followed for all trauma and surgical ICU patients. For example, within 24 hours of admission to the SICU, patients and their families will receive psychosocial or bereavement support from Dr. Murphy or her team, including specially trained counselors and clergy. Within 72 hours, the family has a special meeting with a doctor and a nurse. On the personal care side, there are plans to develop a mobile comfort care cart for the SICU that includes such items as a lamp, a CD player, massage oil, and blankets. And when a trauma patient dies, each death will be reviewed through a palliative care filter: Did the patient and the family receive the best of palliative services? Afterward, families can contact the University Hospital bereavement team as needed, at no cost.

“When a person dies, it’s one of the most important times in the lives of the family he or she leaves behind. It stays with them forever,” says Dr. Murphy. “For doctors and nurses, the challenge is to help the patient and the family through the dying process with sensitivity. For the family, it’s a sad time. We don’t want to do anything to make it worse.”

For more information about end-of-life palliative care, call Pat Murphy, PhD, RN Clinical Ethicist at (973) 972-7251.
 

Tools for Caregivers:
Integrating Palliative and Critical Care Handbook
Guidelines for Ventilator Withdrawal
Palliative Care Orders (Form)

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